What kind of summer activities are the best to put your child with Aspergers into?
One problem parents have is that they are convinced their child needs tons of activities in order to thrive. Before I give you suggestions remember this: unless your son is sitting around playing video games all day, extracurricular activities aren't a must. They are obviously healthy but equally can be a significant source of stress to you and him. If he's getting some socialization, and plenty of love, there's no need to force him to do something.
That said, it seems sports aren't his thing. What about an art class? If you do a search in your town, or local areas you may find art centers that offer inexpensive classes, or “free” art, which would mean your son can go and take advantage of the art and craft supplies. Pottery is a fun, fantastic sensory craft that he may enjoy, and while owning your own loom can be pricey, signing up for a weekly class saves you money in the long run.
If your son loves to read or play board games, find a club in the area that hosts a book or game swap night. This is a great way for him to trade the new for old, and to meet people in the area with the same interests. I also know of comic book shops hosting game nights, where patrons are encouraged to come, have a snack, and play for a few hours. If you have the space, you can even start your own gaming club! Websites like Craigslist http://www.craigslist.org/about/sites or Meetup http://www.meetup.com/
are fantastic ways to find members of your community that share the same interests as your son.
You mentioned your son doesn't enjoy sports; is it because of the competitive aspect, or is he simply not a physical guy? Swimming is one hobby many children with Aspergers enjoy, and if you can find a local pool to join it may be the best thing you've done. Whether you go to splash around a few times a week, or take lessons it's up to you. Either way swimming is a phenomenal activity that's sensory oriented and great exercise.
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Thanks for reading,
Dave Angel
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