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Diagnosis - How to get the correct diagnosis for your child and understand what it really means.

As I'm sure you already know getting the correct diagnosis for your child can often be an up hill battle for parents to say the least! And even then it's not really much use if you're not sure what it really means.

In the Diagnosis section of Parenting Aspergers Community I offer practical hints and tips for parents who are seeking the correct diagnosis for their child (whether a first diagnosis or even a re-diagnosis). I also provide easy-to-understand information about what the diagnosis actually means for you and your child.

Aspergers Diagnosis - What are the main Aspergers Symptoms?

There are several common characteristics that medical professionals look for when diagnosing someone with Aspergers. Symptoms may range from quite mild to debilitating, depending on the individual, due to the range of functional ability displayed within the Autism spectrum. Here are the most recognized characteristics of Aspergers Syndrome . . . keep reading

Aspergers Diagnosis - How do I come to terms with what the Aspergers diagnosis means for the years to come? Only last week my son's teacher said it was too much to expect that he will have friends. I am heart broken that he is likely to go through life as a misfit, with no friends and constantly having to cope with other children calling him weird and disgusting. Maybe I find this more difficult than he does.

It is hard to understand why a teacher would make such a prediction. Most teachers have very little knowledge of Asperger's Syndrome. What they know they have learned from working with kids like your son, from parents of children with Asperger's, and from in-school training sessions. More than likely, this teacher has a degree in education, but not necessarily in special education, and definitely not in neuro-psychology. Your son's teacher is basing this prediction on the limited amount of time he is in the classroom... . . . keep reading

Aspergers Diagnosis - How do I get other people to realize that Aspergers is a difference not a disability?

It is all about perspective. Some people choose to see light in the darkness, while others choose to see the darkness in the light. Same with the glass half full of water. Or, is it half empty? . . . keep reading

Aspergers Diagnosis - Where can I find psychologists who have expertise in Asperger's Syndrome?

Whether you are trying to get an evaluation for a diagnosis of Asperger's Syndrome, or trying to build a support team for a child who has already been diagnosed with Asperger's, it is necessary to include a good psychologist. A psychologist with experience in Autism spectrum or Asperger's will be a vital member of your child's medical team. Finding a specialist can be a bit difficult unless you know where to look . . . keep reading

Aspergers Diagnosis - I am still trying to receive a diagnosis of Aspergers for my child. What should I do in the US or UK?

When you think something is "not quite right" with your child, it is best to follow through with the appropriate action. A parent knows his or her own child better than anyone else. That bond is there for a reason. It is the parent's natural instinct to take care of the child's . . . keep reading

Aspergers Diagnosis - I have a 15 year old son who 8 years ago, was diagnosed with Asperger's. This information was only disclosed to me very recently. We have struggled for 8 years to find out what was wrong with our son. He has suffered great emotional stress and continues to suffer. We have since had several re-evaluations to confirm this diagnosis. My question is: What type of permanent damage has this caused my son and what type of treatment would you recommend? He is very angry and does not fully comprehend what is happening or why. He does not understand how a doctor he has seen since he was an infant and he trusted could have caused him so much pain. How do I make him understand that this was not his fault? He has become more withdrawn and now even refuses to go to school.

Struggling for years, only to discover the answer was just out of your reach must be devastating. Your whole family obviously feels betrayed by your son's doctor. It is hard to imagine the reasoning of keeping your son's Asperger's diagnosis from you for such a long time. You can attempt to pacify your son on the issue, but people with Asperger's are . . . keep reading

Aspergers Diagnosis - How do I explain Aspergers to my 10-year-old son?

Many families struggle with how to talk about their child's diagnosis. They are concerned not only with how to talk to the child about having Asperger's Syndrome, but also concerned with telling other family members, the child's teachers at school, friends and neighbors. It can be a complicated situation and one you should talk through with your family . . . keep reading

Aspergers Diagnosis - I am trying to figure out how to tell my son that I'm positive he has Asperger's, knowing it will set off rages & irrational behaviour.

Talking to your child about Asperger's will vary greatly according to the age of your child. A very young child who is not yet of school age will have a far different understanding of what Asperger's is and what it means to him than an older child or an adolescent. Only you can decide what is the best and most appropriate way to talk to him about his diagnosis . . . keep reading

Aspergers Diagnosis - Can children with Aspergers have some of the characteristics of Aspergers and not others?

The short answer to your question is that yes, many children will exhibit some symptoms of Asperger's Syndrome and not others. Many children will have Asperger's compounded by other factors, such as ADD or ADHD, which can intensify some symptoms of Asperger's as well as to add additional symptoms. While it is impossible to say that there is a set of symptoms all children with Asperger's exhibit, there are a few cores symptoms that most children with Asperger's will present . . . keep reading

Aspergers Diagnosis - Is it possible to have varying degrees of the Syndrome and is it possible to grow out of it a bit and mature? Some mild, some middle and some severe cases?

There are varying degrees of Asperger's Syndrome. The symptoms vary from person to person and the degree to which the symptoms affect the person can vary as well. Consequently, it is very difficult to pinpoint a set of Asperger's behaviors that all children with Asperger's will exhibit. It is not possible to grow out of Asperger's Syndrome. It is possible, however to . . . keep reading

Aspergers Diagnosis - My child has a dual diagnosis of Aspergers and Downs Syndrome -- can you tell me what similarities there are and give me some helpful hints to help him better at school and home.

Asperger's Syndrome and Downs Syndrome are two separate entities that do not share many similarities. Downs Syndrome is caused by the presence of an additional chromosome in a fetus. It can cause learning disabilities. Downs Syndrome has many special distinguishing physical characteristics, such as a small head, a small mouth, and upward slanting eyes. People with Downs Syndrome typically have trouble with physical coordination and are likely to suffer gastrointestinal problems as well as heart problems. Children with Asperger's Syndrome suffer from . . . keep reading

Aspergers Diagnosis - When and how to explain Asperger's to him?

Speaking to your child about Asperger's is a very personal decision. There truly is no right and wrong way to approach this. You'll need to keep several things in mind when you make the decision to talk to your child about Asperger's . . . keep reading

Aspergers Diagnosis - Can you give actual examples of behavior that demonstrate aspects of the "Triad of Impairment" in terms parents that parents can relate to. Terms used in diagnostic criteria such as 'lack of appreciation of social cues' could be illustrated by a very wide range of examples of real-life behavior, with which parents could identify.

This is the Triad of Impairment in Asperger's Syndrome as it appears in the behavior of Asperger's children and teens: 1. SOCIAL INTERACTION • Little awareness of the existence of others, or of their feelings, ignores distress of others, behaves in ways that hurt others emotionally or physically; . . . keep reading

Aspergers Diagnosis - I have not discussed with my daughter what I think might be happening with my grandson. I may be wrong. He may be on the spectrum. It's her first baby; I do not know how to tell her.

Whoa! Let's back up a bit here. Are you an Asperger's specialist? How old is this child? Whatever you think may be happening with your grandson, you shouldn't jump the gun. While I am not trying to be disrespectful of your concerns, I think you are moving way to fast to be considering "telling her" (your daughter) that her child is on the autism spectrum. The bottom line is that making such a diagnosis is up to a professional. So, don't say anything to her yet. . . . keep reading

Aspergers Diagnosis - How do I have my son tested and what does it involve - I live in the UK

In the UK I would say that your first point of call would be to ask for an assessment by the Educational psychologist linked to your son's school. This can help with the process and look at special needs statementing for extra help eventually. . . . keep reading

Aspergers Diagnosis - Is Aspergers hereditary?

My son wasn't diagnosed with ASD until he was about 7. I have a 4 y/o nephew that I have some concerns about. I know that I am more aware of the symptoms now and just wonder if . . . keep reading

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