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Behavior - Strategies for working with different and complex behaviors

One of the most challenging aspects for parents of children with Aspergers is being able to understand and work positively with a whole variety of behaviors that their child may display. These behaviors can range from dangerous and challenging to more bizarre and seemingly quite strange.

 

In this department I will outline a number of real life behaviors that your child may well be displaying. Then I will look to explain what the causes are and how to work more effectively with those behaviors to give both you and your child better results.

How to discipline a child with Asperger's that won't listen?
How to discipline a child with Asperger's that won't listen? Finding a way to punish bad behavior is often an issue for families dealing with Asperger's. Discipline for a child on the Autism Spectrum cannot be handled in the same manner as for a typical child. The parent must maintain control while the child may be completely upset, in a rage, or totally unresponsive. However, the child must be disciplined in order to learn from his mistakes. What is a parent to do? . . . keep reading
How to discipline a child with Asperger's that won't listen?
How to discipline a child with Asperger's that won't listen? Finding a way to punish bad behavior is often an issue for families dealing with Asperger's. Discipline for a child on the Autism Spectrum cannot be handled in the same manner as for a typical child. The parent must maintain control while the child may be completely upset, in a rage, or totally unresponsive. However, the child must be disciplined in order to learn from his mistakes. What is a parent to do? . . . keep reading
How can we control the anger management issues that my child with Asperger's displays?
How can we control the anger management issues that my child with Asperger's displays? Anger can definitely be a problem for children with Asperger's. Anger management is something that you will have to teach the child since social language and emotional responses do not come naturally. Your child, like many children on the spectrum, may be dealing with a number of emotions that he cannot explain. We know that stress and anxiety are major issues for children with Asperger's Syndrome. Here are other problem emotions that can manifest as anger. . . . keep reading
What are the best strategies to use when dealing with temper tantrums and behavior for children with Asperger's at school?
What are the best strategies to use when dealing with temper tantrums and behavior for children with Asperger's at school? The classroom can be a very challenging environment for children with Asperger's. Behavior problems are common and sometimes come as a surprise due to the high academic ability most children with Asperger's Syndrome exhibit. The classroom teacher must be educated on the characteristics of Asperger's in order to guarantee a successful school year. In addition, the teacher must also learn how Asperger's Syndrome presents in the individual student. Unfortunately, academics will suffer if behavior problems are allowed to continue and the entire class will be affected. . . . keep reading
My daughter is 6 yrs old and diagnosed with Asperger's. The only problem now is that she refuses to write at school and does not do her work. She does not care that she fails. She knows the work but will not do it. What can I do?
My daughter is 6 yrs old and diagnosed with Asperger's.  The only problem now is that she refuses to write at school and does not do her work.  She does not care that she fails.  She knows the work but will not do it.  What can I do? Your daughter is exhibiting a common problem for children with Asperger's Syndrome. She has poor functional behavior. Functional behavior is a behavioral issue that is caused by the symptoms of the child's special needs. In most cases, the child is receiving undesirable input and is attempting to replace that input with something else. . . . keep reading
Is there anything more I can do to help my son with Asperger's learn to initiate affection, other than being a positive example?
Is there anything more I can do to help my son with Asperger's learn to initiate affection, other than being a positive example? For children with Asperger's, affection is often very difficult to display. The concept of using gestures and communication to relay feelings and emotions is complicated. This is hard for parents who receive validation directly from the affection given and received within their family. The truth is that most children with Asperger's Syndrome do feel affection and would like to show these feelings. However, that thought does not help the parents much. As humans, they need that outward show of affection from the ones they love. . . . keep reading
My daughter's bedtime routines now take 6-9 hours and consume her entire life. Any suggestions on how to keep her focused? She says her mind wanders off the task at hand.
My daughter's bedtime routines now take 6-9 hours and consume her entire life.  Any suggestions on how to keep her focused?  She says her mind wanders off the task at hand. Children with Asperger's Syndrome usually do very well with routine and schedules. The structure is important to them. Having a daily routine that rarely varies provides balance and comfort. Unfortunately, this type of strict daily scheduling is impossible due to the normal ups and downs of life. When you add the lack of focus many kids with Asperger's Syndrome often exhibit, you can have big trouble. . . . keep reading
How to discipline a child with Asperger's that won't listen?
How to discipline a child with Asperger's that won't listen? Finding a way to punish bad behavior is often an issue for families dealing with Asperger's. Discipline for a child on the Autism Spectrum cannot be handled in the same manner as for a typical child. The parent must maintain control while the child may be completely upset, in a rage, or totally unresponsive. However, the child must be disciplined in order to learn from his mistakes. What is a parent to do? . . . keep reading
My 20 year old son with Asperger's is getting overly pushy and mouthy, but thinks it's funny. What should I do?
My 20 year old son with Asperger's is getting overly pushy and mouthy, but thinks it's funny.  What should I do? It is common for teens and young adults with Asperger's Syndrome to exhibit the types of behaviors that you are experiencing. When you think about it, the rough-housing, loudness, and rough talk are pretty normal for teen boys. However, they usually grow out of these behaviors as they become young adults. . . . keep reading
How to learn and adapt better coping mechanisms for my child with Aspergers?
How to learn and adapt better coping mechanisms for my child with Aspergers? Basic life skills do not come naturally to children with Asperger's. Coping skills, daily living skills, and organizational skills must be taught in an intentional manner. Unlike typically developing children, children with Asperger's Syndrome are unable to learn these skills completely by observation and instinct. Your child simply cannot make the connection due to his lack of the ability to understand how his actions affect other people. . . . keep reading
Are kids and adults with Aspergers ever able to look other people in the eyes?
Are kids and adults with Aspergers ever able to look other people in the eyes? It is true that eye contact is difficult for most people with Asperger's. Eyes are an important part of socialization, communication, and personal connection. All of these areas of development are affected by Asperger's Syndrome. Without eye contact, it is difficult for people to engage. . . . keep reading
Aspergers Behavior - How can we control the anger management issues that my child with Asperger's displays?
Aspergers Behavior - How can we control the anger management issues that my child with Asperger's displays? Anger can definitely be a problem for children with Asperger's. Anger management is something that you will have to teach the child since social language and emotional responses do not come naturally. Your child, like many children on the spectrum, may be dealing with a number of emotions that he cannot explain . . . keep reading
Aspergers Behavior - How to deal with mealtimes?
Aspergers Behavior - How to deal with mealtimes? Many children and adults with Asperger's Syndrome find it difficult to sit still in certain situations. The need to fidget is a response to sensory distress. It may also be an obsessive-compulsive trait. This fidgeting is often referred to as stimming, which is short for stimulatory behavior or self-stimulation. The action of stimming can be involuntary for kids on the Autism spectrum. . . . keep reading
Aspergers Behavior - How to deal with anger management and Aspergers?
Aspergers Behavior - How to deal with anger management and Aspergers? Children and adults with Aspergers often have problems with anger management. Aspergers Syndrome causes frustration, aggressive behavior and even meltdowns in many children. The social communication challenges, the rigidity, and the obsessive thinking have their places within the child's personality. However, at times, these characteristics can overflow and cause serious problems for the child and for anyone in his path. . . . keep reading
Aspergers Behavior - What do you do when anger and frustration becomes so overwhelming that everything you try does not work?
Aspergers Behavior - What do you do when anger and frustration becomes so overwhelming that everything you try does not work? Anger and frustration seem to be a big part of life for people with Asperger's Syndrome. The characteristics of Aspergers can make everyday situations difficult, at best. Ordinary social situations can become triggers for anger in people with Asperger's. Other triggers include becoming overwhelmed by any activity or situation, unwelcome changes in routine or schedules, and sensory overload. Of course, triggers are individual and specific depending on a person's particular strengths and challenges. . . . keep reading
Aspergers Behavior - How can I foresee some of the meltdowns in my child with Aspergers?
Aspergers Behavior - How can I foresee some of the meltdowns in my child with Aspergers? Every parent witnesses their child's occasional meltdowns. Asperger's Syndrome, unfortunately, plays a huge part in this type of behavior. Even though all children get upset and throw the occasional tantrum, this is nothing compared to the balance it can take to prevent a child with Autism from having multiple meltdowns on a daily basis. . . . keep reading
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