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I get a lot of feedback from the parents that I work who say that having a child diagnosed with Aspergers can be very challenging at times. It can have a negative impact on families and even contribute to family breakdowns, relationship difficulties and divorce. This feedback is also supported by academic research.

In this Parents Department I outline these challenges and offer simple and practical ways to resolve them whether you are a single parent, experiencing some kind of relationship problems or need some help to support other family members. I also look at proactive ways to stop people getting to such difficult situations in the first place.

How can I get help with respite/child care for my child with Aspergers?
There's no question about the love you feel for your child, but let's face it. Caring for a child with Asperger's Syndrome can get stressful, tiring, and lonely. When you find yourself avoiding social situations because you're uncomfortable leaving your child, it's time to find an alternative plan. You can't spend 100% of your time caring for others without time to care for yourself. When preparing to take a plane trip, the flight crew reminds the passengers to apply their own oxygen masks before assisting others. In other words, you will be worthless unless you take care of yourself first ... . . . keep reading
I have Medicaid and there is no treatment for my child except through the county and they are backlogged two years. We are only receiving school counseling. It is a nightmare. Do we have any rights to appeal?
Medicaid is wonderful when it works. Even though this health care option is a federal program, each state is responsible in part, for funding the program. Because of this, each state has developed their own guidelines for eligibility and services. Children with disabilities are usually accepted into the Medicaid program as their primary health care coverage ... . . . keep reading
How do I get daughter with Aspergers to accept help?
Getting your child to accept help is difficult for any parent, but can be especially problematic for the parent of a child with Asperger's ... . . . keep reading
I really want to know what makes my son with Aspergers happy and I want to be able to help him with this. It is heartbreaking to watch a child who used to laugh and love learning, withdraw into himself and not know how to interact with peers.
Every parent's dream is to watch their baby grow into a happy, well-adjusted child. You are right. It is heartbreaking to watch your child suffer. Thankfully, there are things you can do to get your son back on a happier, fulfilling course ... . . . keep reading
How do I get other family members to understand that his behaviors are not deliberate? In addition, some people do not understand that when the child with Asperger's does something unacceptable he is very remorseful later. What can I do?
Children with Asperger's Syndrome do things that the rest of the world considers excessive, unkind, or just plain mean. We call them rude. We label them as weird, quirky, aggressive, and sometimes crazy. When a person is not educated on a condition like Asperger's and they don't see what it looks like daily, they can be quick to make judgments. You hear more about Asperger's Syndrome lately, but not everyone knows exactly what it is. Let's face it. Asperger's Syndrome is complicated. Even if you have a child with Asperger's, it still can be difficult to shed light on all that the condition entails. Here are a few tips that will help create peace and understanding within your family. . . . keep reading
I am a pre-pregnancy counsellor and from all the published literature, I understand that there is no molecular/genetic diagnosis of Asperger's syndrome and hence, we cannot offer a prenatal diagnosis for a future sibling to the parents. However, have there been any new advances on this front? Secondly, what could we quote as recurrence risk if the parents have one affected child with Asperger's syndrome?
Studies have been done on families and twins that suggest that Asperger's Syndrome and other Autism Spectrum Disorders have a genetic component. A specific gene or marker for Asperger's has not been identified. Because the symptoms of Asperger's Syndrome can vary so widely, it is thought that perhaps more than one gene causes Asperger's syndrome ... . . . keep reading
I am worried that my teenaged son with Aspergers is becoming more reliant on alcohol to cope with his low feelings. Is this common and what can I do to help him?
The teen years can be precarious when under the influence of alcohol. A teen's peer group often sees alcohol use as a rite of passage. Teens think to be accepted by the crowd, you have to be willing to take some risks. These risks are ... . . . keep reading
What kind of party games would you suggest for my son who has Aspergers and is 12? He's having a few people from school and some family over maybe 10 people.
Birthday parties can be uncomfortable for children with Asperger's Syndrome. People, noise, sights, and sounds can be overwhelming. However, your son is at a great age for a party. He has seen a few birthdays, so he has a sense for what a party entails. With a bit of preparation you can plan a party that he and his friends will enjoy ... . . . keep reading
Sometimes I just get so stressed as a parent of a child with Aspergers. Can you give me some good and low cost ways to help me relax?
Parenting is definitely not for the faint of heart. It can be a stress-filled existence, especially when your child has Asperger's Syndrome. The added worries of therapies, special education, social classes, medical appointments, medication, and counseling sessions.You get the picture. All of these things are added to the basic job of being a parent and running a household. The saying, "you must take care of yourself before you can take care of others" comes into play here. It is imperative that you ... . . . keep reading
We are planning a family holiday this year with our child who has Aspergers - any tips?
There is just nothing better than a family holiday! Asperger's Syndrome should not stand in the way of a fun family adventure. With a little advanced planning and extra consideration, you can arrange a trip that will be a great memory for years to come ... . . . keep reading
How can I help my son to understand what others truly mean?
For children with Asperger's, understanding social interactions can be truly puzzling and confusing. The difficulties of reading verbal cues and facial cues can be overwhelming for some and not noticed by others. Whether there is too much social information to be decoded or social information is just not noticed, your child with Asperger's is going to need some help learning how to interact with people. One way to help your son understand social cues is to ... . . . keep reading
A lot of people tell me I need to be more consistent in my parenting to my son with ASD.  What does this really mean?  Can you advise how I can become better at this?
Being the parent of a child on the Autism spectrum can be a tough job at times.  There is nothing more demanding than the need to rediscover what it means to parent a child.  There are some . . . keep reading
What are some of the classic ways that parents miscommunicate with their children who have Asperger's -- and how can this be improved?
Children with Asperger's Syndrome usually have well developed speech and articulation. However, there is much more to communication than having the ability to speak. These children struggle with the physical side of communication. Eye contact, personal space limitations, body language, facial expression, and social and vocal cues are additional elements that make up true communication. These areas are most likely the cause for miscommunication. To improve communication between parents and children with Asperger's Syndrome, the parents will need to ... . . . keep reading
Why is my son's world always so "black and white?" He is ALWAYS RIGHT!
Children with Asperger's Syndrome have a particular way of viewing the world. Children with Asperger's typically have a lack of understanding of the different levels of social interaction. They lack social imagination, and they tend to have some sort of difficulty with communication. These three traits lead to ... . . . keep reading
How do I help other people in the world understand my son's behaviors?
Here is a brief description of Asperger's Syndrome. Asperger's is a developmental disorder that affects a child's ability to socialize and communicate effectively. Children with Asperger's syndrome typically are ... . . . keep reading
I live in the USA and would love to find out about financial support and how to apply for it.
It's difficult to advise you without knowing in which state you live. Please be aware that parents of Asperger's children often have difficulty getting financial support as Asperger's is often not recognized as a serious disability. It's very unlikely that you will be able to get full financial support. However, there are some resources I can recommend ... . . . keep reading
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