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How to help your child become more independent

The ultimate aim for all parents (regardless of their child having a form of disability or not) is to slowly increase their independence over time to allow them eventually to become independent young adults. For children with Aspergers this can be a more complex challenge but none the less is achievable.

In the Gaining Independence department I offer real life strategies and solutions to help you as a parent to improve your child's independence skills across the age range from young children to teenagers and young adults ...

Aspergers Independent - How and when to move an adult Aspergers child to independent living or living beyond the parents walls?
Aspergers Independent - How and when to move an adult Aspergers child to independent living or living beyond the parents walls? Moving out of the family home is the goal of many adults with Asperger's. Independent living has a certain appeal to most kids as they grow up and desire to do their own thing. However, Asperger's Syndrome can sometimes make living on your own quite complicated. . . . keep reading
Aspergers Independent - I want to teach my son to live with Aspergers to independently and to understand that every action has a reaction, such as not paying your rent leads to eviction; not signing grant papers leads to losing your support, etc. How can I help my son work on these issues?
Aspergers Independent - I want to teach my son to live with Aspergers to independently and to understand that every action has a reaction, such as not paying your rent leads to eviction; not signing grant papers leads to losing your support, etc.  How can I help my son work on these issues? As a parent, your goal is to see your son grow up and move on, exhibiting the full ability to live independently. It is wise to make plans and ask these questions while your son is still young, giving both of you time to meet the expectations of the future. There are many resources available to assist you in this endeavor. We'll go over some of them here to allow you to formulate a plan ... . . . keep reading
Aspergers Independent - How do I help instill confidence in my son with Aspergers as he continues to grow? (He's a young adult now.)
Aspergers Independent - How do I help instill confidence in my son with Aspergers as he continues to grow? (He's a young adult now.) Kids with Asperger's Syndrome can definitely struggle with a lack of self-confidence. These kids are targeted by their peers in so many ways. They sometimes come across as 'too good', needing strict adherence to rules. They can also be highly intelligent, causing them to be labeled as 'brains'. Sometimes clumsy, kids with Asperger's are just different enough that the other kids at school resort to picking at them. Bullying is a huge problem for kids with Asperger's. Add in the inability to make good social connections and you have a definite risk for low self-esteem ... . . . keep reading
Aspergers Independent - My teenaged son with Aspergers has left school and has no job or plans for college. How can I get him to be motivated to do something with his life?
Aspergers Independent - My teenaged son with Aspergers has left school and has no job or plans for college.  How can I get him to be motivated to do something with his life? Motivating a teenager to do anything can be a real chore. Teenagers have reached the age where they think they are smarter than their parents. This is true of all teenagers, including those with Asperger's Syndrome. It can be a source of contention in any household. Things do get better, but until that happens, you'll need a plan ... . . . keep reading
Aspergers Independent - I have an 18-year-old son with Asperger's. He has just finished his first semester of college living away from home. He did very well with his grades. He has made a few friends and joined some clubs. My concern is that he says he wants to go on an internship this summer. He seems very interested in it but he just can't make himself write the essay that he needs to for this application. We have tried to encourage him but he is having trouble getting started. What can I do to help motivate him? I would also like to see him get out of his room more but he seems to have problems with this also. He wants to make friends and do things with others but he has a hard time getting started. Any suggestions?
Aspergers Independent - I have an 18-year-old son with Asperger's. He has just finished his first semester of college living away from home. He did very well with his grades. He has made a few friends and joined some clubs. My concern is that he says he wants to go on an internship this summer. He seems very interested in it but he just can't make himself write the essay that he needs to for this application. We have tried to encourage him but he is having trouble getting started. What can I do to help motivate him? I would also like to see him get out of his room more but he seems to have problems with this also. He wants to make friends and do things with others but he has a hard time getting started. Any suggestions? Your son seems to have done well with his first semester of college and has survived his first living experience away from home! This is exciting for any parent, not simply the parent of a child with Asperger's. His grades were good and he has joined in structured social activities and has made a few friends. These are great things and things that should be celebrated! Many children with Asperger's find it difficult to ... . . . keep reading
Aspergers Independent - What techniques should I be teaching my son with Aspergers to help him maintain his self-esteem throughout his adult years?
Aspergers Independent - What techniques should I be teaching my son with Aspergers to help him maintain his self-esteem throughout his adult years? Helping your son develop his sense of self esteem throughout his developing years will give him a very strong foundation on which to create his adult self image. Because you have nurtured and supported him throughout his childhood, your son will be entering adulthood with a healthy sense of self-esteem. Establishing yourself as an adult can be a difficult time for any person. Making the transition from student to a functioning adult with a job and responsibilities can be challenging. Encourage your son to ... . . . keep reading
Aspergers Independent - My son spends too much time being fascinated by ants & clouds. He spends a lot of time watching the world go by. Will this improve?
Aspergers Independent - My son spends too much time being fascinated by ants & clouds.  He spends a lot of time watching the world go by.  Will this improve? Generally speaking, people with Asperger's Syndrome can appear to be disorganized and forgetful because they concentrate on everything around them. No aspect of their environment is more important to them than any other. So, while people with ADD may be distracted by a fly on the wall at school, someone with Asperger's may . . . keep reading
Aspergers independent - What practical tips can I give my son on how not to be freaked out by job interviews? Also, whether to even say he has Asperger's on a job application?
Aspergers independent - What practical tips can I give my son on how not to be freaked out by job interviews?  Also, whether to even say he has Asperger's on a job application? Sad though it is I would advise your son not to mention Asperger's Syndrome either on an application or during . . . keep reading
Aspergers Independent - I want to know how to find assistance for him to get into a career most suitable for him and wherein he can maximize his potential.
Aspergers Independent - I want to know how to find assistance for him to get into a career most suitable for him and wherein he can maximize his potential. For adults with Asperger's Syndrome there are many challenges that must be faced during their education and search for a career. Because adults with Asperger's have great difficulties with social interaction, repetitive behaviours, limited interests, and inconsistent schedules, they must . . . keep reading
Aspergers Independent - What is the best way for my child to learn to navigate new situations?
Aspergers Independent - What is the best way for my child to learn to navigate new situations? Research has shown that the rate of anxiety symptoms in children or adults with Asperger's Syndrome is much higher than average. More then 75% of all children with Asperger's also experience intense, anxious feelings, especially in new situations. Try not to put your child in . . . keep reading
Aspergers Independent - How can I help my son have a life outside of home?
Aspergers Independent - How can I help my son have a life outside of home? Teens with Asperger's Syndrome often lack confidence about getting out into the world. Sometimes they stay home too much. A lot of the skills that are developed in the teen years are social and emotional skills, but teens with Aspergers develop them later than other teens. That causes reluctance to go out and face the world. The world is a difficult place for young people with Aspergers. Store clerks may be rude or impatient, crowds make Aspies feel out of control, and there is always the fear of making embarrassing mistakes. But, in order to get a life outside the home, your son has to . . . keep reading
Aspergers Independent - Where can I find resources for my son to see, read, be encouraged and empowered by (not just for me)?
Aspergers Independent - Where can I find resources for my son to see, read, be encouraged and empowered by (not just for me)? There is a lot of information on this site and the blog www.parentingaspergers.com/blog that might help your son, depending on his age. Besides informational articles and answers to questions, we . . . keep reading

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