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Help for Adults with Aspergers

As I am sure you know this website is exclusively for parents of children with Aspergers. However I know for a fact that many of the parents who contact me for help have children in their late teens and twenties. And also that all parents worry and speculate how their child will be when they grow up ...

So I have added this department to outline some of the issues, problems and solutions for adults with Aspergers. Many are very similar to those for children but obviously certain things do change for your child when they enter adulthood. So it's on these differences that this department will focus.

How can I use my adult son's life and challenges to make others be more sensitive and accepting of those with challenges?
Unless you've experienced the trauma of a child receiving a developmental diagnosis, you have no idea how it affects a family. Even though you know that your child is still the same sweet baby as before the diagnosis, it can be difficult to grasp. Some days you want to hide the truth and other days you want to shout it to everyone close enough to hear. Unless you live it, you just don't understand the challenges of Asperger's Syndrome ... . . . keep reading

My son was diagnosed with Aspergers in his late 20's. In my state there is little help available for finding a suitable work environment or employers willing to assist, etc. What can we do?
It must seem overwhelming to you to learn now that your son has Asperger's Syndrome. It isn't an uncommon occurrence. Asperger's Syndrome is a condition that presents itself in different ways in different people, causing children to go through life labeled as geeky, nerdy, clumsy, or weird. Thankfully, educators and medical professionals are getting better at putting the symptoms together early, allowing for the extra help these kids need to be successful. It's important to remember, however, that ... . . . keep reading

My son with Aspergers is now in his twenties and we are concerned that he will not become responsible for himself. Any advice?
Learning responsibility is an on-going process that starts when we are children. Once we reach the teen years, our desire to do our own things grows strong. But the reality of actually leaving the nest and taking on all of the household chores soon hits and we begin to sit on our laurels, if you know what I mean. All the talk of moving out and being on our own gives way to silence as we hide in our room, listening to music. For most teens with Asperger's Syndrome, life isn't much different. Teens with Asperger's are ... . . . keep reading

How can my adult son with Aspergers find and keep a job?
We associate all of our self-worth on how successful we are in life. The right career, the perfect house, and good friends are all necessary for us to fit in. In reality, most people would be far happier with less if they could spend their days chasing their dreams instead of dollars. People with Asperger's Syndrome spend their time concentrating on personal interests. This can be useful when it comes to finding a job ... . . . keep reading

How can I decide how to provide opportunities for independent adult living?
The goal in life that everyone strives for is independence. We all want our children to be independent, making their own plans and decisions. We offer excellent guidance and support from a very young age to prevent as much struggle to learn basic social skills and coping strategies as possible. As our children grow up, we must take the steps necessary to help them achieve the ultimate goal of independence ... . . . keep reading

I would like to know more about Asperger's in adults, 35 years and on. Also can people with Asperger's also have Bipolar? And show extreme jealousy and possessiveness?
Asperger's Syndrome is thought to be something that a person develops at birth or shortly thereafter, and a person will live with for the rest of his life. If detected early enough, many children receive therapy and counselling that help them develop some of the social skills that are necessary to navigate the world. Since the diagnosis of Asperger's Syndrome is fairly recent, many people are not diagnosed as having Asperger's Syndrome until they are adults. Some adults who exhibit signs or symptoms of Asperger's Syndrome ... . . . keep reading

I just have started to work with adults with ASD, I work in a private home setting for an agency in my area. I would like to ask a few questions on handling situations with behaviors. Why at any given moment will they have a behavior, for no apparent reason, lashing out at a staff or another autistic person that lives there with them?
It is difficult to answer your question because there are so many reasons a person with Asperger's could lash out at another person. Individuals with Asperger's are all different and have different behavioral triggers, just as people without Asperger's do. People with Asperger's tend to have trouble in settings where there is ... . . . keep reading

I am struggling with my adult son with Asperger's. How can I help him understand that not all friendly people are good choices for friends? He's thousands of dollars in debt and has been in jail four times because of those who "befriended" him.
As you know, people with Asperger's tend to be more vulnerable and naive than other people; they don't always understand body language, joking, sarcasm, social cues, and other people's intentions. This can lead to interactions with people who are criminals, want to take advantage of them, and don't care about them. But, people with Aspergers need ... . . . keep reading

My daughter is now a parent. The biggest challenge is ensuring that she is reading my grandbaby's emotions appropriately and that she is interacting with the baby and not with her cell, My Space page, or other object!
This is a serious situation because the safety and well-being of a child is at stake. There are some good suggestions for you in this answer, but the most important thing to do is ... . . . keep reading

How do I get information to help an adult with Asperger's? My son was diagnosed as an adult, so I am not able to find out much about his problems/treatment due to patient confidentiality on the part of his doctors.
This definition comes from the online encyclopaedia, Wikipedia. "Asperger Syndrome {also called Asperger's Syndrome, Asperger's disorder, Asperger's or AS} is an autism spectrum disorder (ASD) in which there is no general delay in language or cognitive development. It is characterized by ... . . . keep reading

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