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Matthew Readman

I consider Matthew to be an extraordinary young man when it comes to writing and getting his views across to people on the subject of Aspergers.

Matthew has a diagnosis of Aspergers and has generated more positive feedback and discussion with his articles and insights into being a teen with Aspergers; than most anything that I have published in the past few years.

So I am delighted to have him on board as the first employee writer here at Parenting Aspergers Community.

Below is a little more information about him written by his mum ...

Matthew has been able to keep an A average.  With the help of the school and the Director of Special Education Matthew attends the school for gifted children once a week to expand the way Matthew thinks.  During his education assessment when we found out Matt has Asbergers when he was six, Matthew had a 3 day testing of his abilities and found out he had an IQ of 148.  He was always able to express himself like an adult but not as a child.  This is where Matthew socialization really hurt him.  He could never understand his peers which led Matthew to be bullied up to grade 4.  At this time Matt and I discussed sharing his disability with his class.  Matthew stood up in front of his class (by himself)  and told them all about his condition and that he does not at times understand why people ask like they do.  After this Matt school mates accepted him better.  They actually started standing up for him when bullies came around telling them Matt does not understand so leave him alone.  He now gives this talk at the beginning of every school year to his class mates which helps him.  The best part other kids with other disabilities are now following in his foot steps and discussing their disabilities to their class because they see how the bullying has stopped for Matt.
 
Matthew has achieved high marks in his writing in school.  He can now out write me.  He has already learned how to put a resume together and his use of words are unbelievable. (even I sometimes have to look up the meanings of the words he uses).  I try to express to Matthew its better to dumb things down because not everyone knows what you are saying especially kids his own age so he is not a target.  Matthew is always afraid of doing oral presentations.  He rocks side to side when he talks because he is so nervous. For example Matt had to do a 10 minute oral presentation for ancient history.  He ended up making a movie of him talking with clips and slide show through out it.  The kids in his class thought it was great and kept their attention through out it.  Now Matt makes movies instead.  This way he is a lot calmer when he talks and can make jokes without worrying anyone will make fun of him.
 
The issues facing him now are:
 
gym
recess
puberty
girls
studying
his future goals ( he's already worrying about his career)

Matthew Readman's view on the proposed changes to Aspergers Diagnosis
Matthew Readman's view on the proposed changes to Aspergers Diagnosis I was asked to give my opinion on this new DSM proposed changes. In my opinion this change is so wrong. Did they even talk with people with aspergers or their families on what they think? How do you even take a hundred people and say they are all the same? Even people with no disabilities are different . . . keep reading
The Dentist by Matthew Readman
The Dentist by Matthew Readman This month's article is on fears. This month I had my first cavity. In all my 11 years I never even had one. When the dentist told me I had a cavity I started shaking and tears came down my eyes. All you ever hear is how this procedure of having cavities hurt. Well my mom and the dentist talked about my high anxiety when it comes to new things. (This of course freaked me out more!) The Dentist suggested I come back in a few days when I calmed down a bit and said she would use laughing gas, and if necessary freezing once I was under. If the dentist were going to give me this gas it must hurt. My mom started telling me about when she was young, how going to the dentist is different today. You know what, to be honest; I really don't care about her trips to the dentist, its mine... . . . keep reading
Aspergers and Heartbreak by Matthew Readman
This month's article is on heartbreak and aspergers. Since grade 4 I really had a crush on this girl. On my 11th birthday I invited her out with me and my family for dinner to celebrate this special day. Near the end of our meal she told me that she had no feelings for me and liked this boy in our class. My heart just shattered and I felt like I was going to die. I couldn't understand why she would tell me this on my special day. That night I cried myself to sleep ... . . . keep reading
The word "inappropriate" by Matthew Readman
Today's article is on the word inappropriate. All my life I have been told that I talk and write like an adult in a child's body. Now that I'm approaching age 12, I am finding this is happening more frequently. I am now enrolled in an enrichment school, which is suppose to let me express my ideas and thoughts. But I am finding that when learning a subject, I still get limits on what I'm supposed to learn. One thing about me is I like to know everything on a subject not just what's on a test. When I further my research and get extra details to share with the class, the teacher will stop me and say this is inappropriate for the class to know. How is a fact from a text book inappropriate? How am I to express my ideas if other people in the class are not ready to learn more ... . . . keep reading
Aspergers and New Year Resolutions by Matthew Readman
I would like to wish everyone a Happy New Year. My first article for 2010 is on New Year's resolutions. Every year I hear my mom and dad, grandfather and grandmother make their New Year's resolutions on something they say they want to stop or start. They asked me this year if I had any resolutions, as I am getting older and should start making goals for myself. I stated, "Why bother?" My mother said everyone has something they wish to change for the better or a bad habit they wish to stop. I am 11 years old, and I have aspergers. What do I want to change? Okay…….I do not want aspergers. I want to be popular and wish to have a million dollars ... . . . keep reading
Aspergers and Father Christmas by Matthew Readman
I would like to wish everyone a Merry Christmas. This article is based on my favorite memory of Christmas. This took place about two years ago. My family and I were watching The Polar Express. We had our stockings in front of the fireplace with a roaring fire going. My mother asked us can you still hear the bells. (In the movie only if you believe in Santa can you hear the reindeer bells ring? As you get older most people cannot hear bells any more). She brought out a bell off the Christmas tree and shook it. Can you hear this she said? My brother and I yelled out "of course, can't you?" My mother and father said no ... . . . keep reading
Aspergers and Depression by Matthew Readman
I just came back from my yearly physical.  The Doctor informed my mom and I, that I was just entering the first part of puberty.  Puberty I yelled but I'm only 10.  I don't turn 11 until later this year.  The Doctor stated that nowadays kids begin puberty early and this is normal.  I asked the Doctor does this mean I'm going to get weirder. The Doctor laughed and stated ... . . . keep reading
My Brain by Matthew Readman
Many people, who do not understand me, always ask how my brain works.  When I was 6, I had an assessment done because I acted differently.  The psychologist used all these terms to describe me, but eventually she came out with, I had Aspergers Syndrome.  She told my parents that I was very bright but when it came to social, my score was below average.  I rock while sitting, I see things black and white, and I am a visual person. How do I see my brain?  I have ... . . . keep reading
Standing up to bullies by Matthew Readman
What is a bully; in the Webster dictionary a bully is defined as "one who intimidates one who is smaller then weaker" HA! To anyone who has aspergers the list goes on and on. I have been mocked, criticized, humiliated, punched. If anyone who knows bullying it's me. Ever since I was ... . . . keep reading
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