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Aspergers Teenagers - Support and Advice for Parents

Now for all parents it can be a difficult time when your child hits those teen years. But when your child has Aspergers, teenagers take on even more significance. They are now in the final part of their schooling, prior to them hopefully going into higher education or employment. High school and it's equivalent around the world can be a very dificult time for teenagers with Aspergers - as issues like fashions, cliques, bullying and sexuality can raise their head more and more. Also the strain and stress on both child and parents when it comes to looking at what the future may hold after school.

In this department I offer parents a whole variety of practical and helpful ideas for helping their Aspergers teenagers to find a way through these turbulent years. There is information on schooling, behavioral challenges, future planning, independence, sexuality and a whole lot more.

 

How can I prepare my 18 year old son with Asperger's for the transition from high school to a work trade program?
How can I prepare my 18 year old son with Asperger's for the transition from high school to a work trade program? Making the move from high school to the working world can be a huge step for your teen with Asperger's. Transition is difficult for most people on the Autism spectrum. The smallest change of routine can cause great anxiety and lead your teen to feel a complete loss of control. People with Asperger's Syndrome have a need for sameness, routine, and set schedules. Making changes in the daily activities can best be accomplished with advanced planning over a prolonged time period. . . . keep reading
I would like to know how you can tell, if at all, where or how Asperger's merges with normal teenage challenges like sudden outbursts of anger, rudeness, and poor social skills and how to manage this?
I would like to know how you can tell, if at all, where or how Asperger's merges with normal teenage challenges like sudden outbursts of anger, rudeness, and poor social skills and how to manage this? The normal challenges that come during the teen years can make life crazy for families affected by Asperger's. It can be hard to distinguish the cause of problem behaviors during the Asperger's teenage years for several reasons. Teenage behaviors and attitudes can crop up quite suddenly, whether Asperger's is a factor or not. For teens with Asperger's, the additional hormone driven challenges can cause serious problems. . . . keep reading
How to help teenage children with Aspergers in body changes?
How to help teenage children with Aspergers in body changes? Puberty can be an uncomfortable and difficult transition for teens with Aspergers Syndrome. There are several reasons for the discomfort, but the most common reason given by parents is the immaturity level. Children with Aspergers Syndrome usually mature much slower than their typical peers. A difference between actual age and maturity level of as much as 4 years is normal for children with Aspergers. . . . keep reading
Is there any way to convince a teenage son that their diagnosis of Aspergers is correct. My son is in denial - "there is something wrong with me but I don't have Aspergers"
Is there any way to convince a teenage son that their diagnosis of Aspergers is correct. My son is in denial - "there is something wrong with me but I don't have Aspergers" Receiving a diagnosis of Aspergers can be devastating for a teenage boy. Learning he has a condition at this age may cause him to feel a variety of emotions. It could be a form of grieving in his case. He may be grieving his loss of normalcy. Even though he knows that he is not exactly like his peers, he is denying his diagnosis. Most likely, this denial would arise no matter what diagnosis was received. . . . keep reading
Aspergers Teenagers - Can you give me advice for my son with Aspergers on high school dating.
Aspergers Teenagers - Can you give me advice for my son with Aspergers on high school dating. Dating is a huge undertaking for most teens with Asperger's. High school relationships are tricky in the best situations. When you add Asperger's Syndrome, dating takes on a completely new meaning. Strong social skills, social communication and language ability, and even sensory input are all characteristics of Asperger's that may come into play while dating. Along with these, here are some additional areas that will need strengthening. . . . keep reading
Aspergers Teenagers - Teen with Aspergers and Physical Aggression
Aspergers Teenagers - Teen with Aspergers and Physical Aggression When children with Aspergers Syndrome grow up, the transition can be very difficult for the entire family. Normal teen behavior may pale in comparison to an out of control teen with Aspergers Syndrome who is refusing treatment. This is a trying time for both parent and child. The parent wants to remain in charge, and rightfully so. . . . keep reading
Aspergers Teenagers: How you can tell where Aspergers merges with normal teenage challenges
Aspergers Teenagers: How you can tell where Aspergers merges with normal teenage challenges The normal challenges that come during the teen years can make life crazy for families affected by Aspergers. It can be hard to distinguish the cause of problem behaviors during the Aspergers teenage years for several reasons. Teenage behaviors and attitudes can crop up quite suddenly, whether Asperger's is a factor or not. . . . keep reading
Aspergers Teenagers - How do I deal with my 15 year old Aspergers son who is obsessed with his online girlfriend
Aspergers Teenagers - How do I deal with my 15 year old Aspergers son who is obsessed with his online girlfriend It certainly sounds like your Aspergers son is struggling in many areas. His obsessions have taken control, his anger is out of control, and his violence and physical abuse is completely unacceptable. The problems your family is experiencing are common during the teen years when Asperger's Syndrome is involved. . . . keep reading
Aspergers Teenagers - How to cope with Aspergers teenagers and too many technology options
Aspergers Teenagers - How to cope with Aspergers teenagers and too many technology options Computers, video games, cell phones, and social media can easily rule the entire existence of a teen with Aspergers Syndrome. The teen's intelligence and aptitude for technology will add fuel to the already increasing problem of multimedia addiction. Games and social media sites can be addictive for anyone, and all the more so for a teen with Aspergers and obsessive tendencies. . . . keep reading
Aspergers Teenagers - How can I help my son with Aspergers to grow emotionally?
Aspergers Teenagers - How can I help my son with Aspergers to grow emotionally? Children with Asperger's Syndrome generally grow up to become sensible adults who are able to function quite normally within society. Many live independent lives, hold jobs, and have families. More people with Asperger's Syndrome are going to college than ever before, obtaining degrees in a variety of fields. A strong base of support and preparation from a young age will help ensure your son's success. . . . keep reading
Aspergers Teenagers - How do you make a teenager with Aspergers more tolerant of young children? He has a set of non-negotiable rules that everyone else needs to abide by.
Aspergers Teenagers - How do you make a teenager with Aspergers more tolerant of young children? He has a set of non-negotiable rules that everyone else needs to abide by. Children are complicated little beings in the eyes of a teenager. Asperger's Syndrome can cause a teen to be more intolerant of children than usual. Some teens with Asperger's Syndrome make great babysitters, loving to spend time with little children. Others would prefer to keep their distance. A lot of this behavior is normal, personal preference, while some of it could be directly related to Asperger's Syndrome. . . . keep reading
Aspergers Teenagers - My son is 14 and has Asperger's. His main means of survival is lying. I can't tell when he is telling the truth or not. Did he eat breakfast? Does he have lunch? Did he use soap in the shower? Did he do his homework? What do you recommend?
Aspergers Teenagers - My son is 14 and has Asperger's.  His main means of survival is lying.  I can't tell when he is telling the truth or not.  Did he eat breakfast?  Does he have lunch?  Did he use soap in the shower?  Did he do his homework?  What do you recommend? It is often said that kids with Asperger's cannot tell lies. The truth is, they can learn, as you well know. Asperger's Syndrome is a spectrum, and while children with Asperger's will have the same basic characteristics, they are unique individuals with their own strengths and weaknesses. Children with Asperger's Syndrome struggle with social communication, causing them to be very rigid thinkers. For instance, rules are rules, no exceptions. The thought of stating a falsehood does not come naturally. . . . keep reading
Aspergers Teenagers - How can I prepare my 16-year-old son with Aspergers for work experience?
Aspergers Teenagers - How can I prepare my 16-year-old son with Aspergers for work experience? One of the best things you can do for your 16-year-old is to talk with him about what having a job would mean in his life. Spend some time asking him about what sort of job he would be interested in. If he has a special interest or a hobby, perhaps he could pursue that interest. If he has an interest in movies, he could find a job in a movie theatre or video store. If he has an interest in video games, perhaps he could find work in a video game store. . . . keep reading
Aspergers Teenagers - I have a 14 yr. Old daughter with Aspergers whose mind turns off from time to time when she is asked to perform something as simple as: "Go into the house and get my blue purse off of the washing machine right next to the yellow phone book". When she gets there, she has no idea what she is there for. She draws a complete blank and gets VERY frustrated. What is this type of behavior (mind going blank) related to and how can it be dealt with as a student, parent and help the school deal with it.
Aspergers Teenagers - I have a 14 yr. Old daughter with Aspergers whose mind turns off from time to time when she is asked to perform something as simple as: "Go into the house and get my blue purse off of the washing machine right next to the yellow phone book". When she gets there, she has no idea what she is there for. She draws a complete blank and gets VERY frustrated. What is this type of behavior (mind going blank) related to and how can it be dealt with as a student, parent and help the school deal with it. Many children with Asperger's Syndrome suffer from a symptom called mind blindness. This is a term that encompasses many things. It basically means that a person has an inability to see something in his mind. This can be an inability to see something from another person's point of view. It can mean that a person simply has an inflexibility in his thought process that can create difficulties with problem solving, impulse control, flexibility and planning . . . keep reading
Aspergers Teenagers - I am worried that my teenaged son with Aspergers is becoming more reliant on alcohol to cope with his low feelings. Is this common and what can I do to help him?
Aspergers Teenagers - I am worried that my teenaged son with Aspergers is becoming more reliant on alcohol to cope with his low feelings. Is this common and what can I do to help him? The teen years can be precarious when under the influence of alcohol. A teen's peer group often sees alcohol use as a rite of passage. Teens think to be accepted by the crowd, you have to be willing to take some risks. These risks are . . . keep reading
Aspergers Teenagers - My daughter is 17 years old.  She wants to drive but I worry that she will go into 'Asperger's mode' and zone out while driving.  When we talk about driving I explain to her that she needs to be paying attention at all times.  Her response is "I don't know if I can do that."  Any suggestions?
Aspergers Teenagers - My daughter is 17 years old.  She wants to drive but I worry that she will go into 'Asperger's mode' and zone out while driving.  When we talk about driving I explain to her that she needs to be paying attention at all times.  Her response is "I don't know if I can do that."  Any suggestions? One of the first, most obvious life transitions for a teen is reaching the legal driving age. That driver's license screams adulthood and independence. Every teen dreams of the day they can jump into a car and drive away, alone and unsupervised. Yikes! Teens with Asperger's are no different from their peers when it comes to meeting these life transitions. With a little extra preparation, your teen can ... . . . keep reading
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